NOTICE THE FEAR. TRUST + ACT WITH LOVE.
During my final pregnancy, I’d have moments of doubt. “Can I actually do this again? Will I know how to breathe? What if x, y, z happens?” I had trust and evidence from birthing my first two babies at home that all would go as needed. And yet, the fears came up.
I see this cycle arise with bringing ideas to life. Deep down, you know you are worthy and capable. Deep down, you may even know exactly what you’re gestating. But doubts and fears arise that slow the surges of inspiration and dampen your fire.
What pieces of evidence from your past and present support that you can do hard things? What practices deepen your sense of trust and possibility?
The truth is things don’t often go according to your exact plan… for your birth, your business— and even for a beautifully organized photoshoot. And that’s part of the process. You choose to work with people you resonate with, then lean into the vulnerability of not knowing exactly how it will turn out.
Our youngest’s middle name is LOVE. Douglas was born the day before Madison’s pandemic shutdown and weeks after my dad’s unexpected passing. The timing was not part of the plan. And somehow, it has unearthed so many gifts and lessons, in just the right timing.
When those doubts and fears creep in, acknowledge them and TURN TOWARDS THE LOVE. Keep tending your inner flame and shining your light, anyways. Perhaps, you, too, find comfort remembering LOVE HAS ITS WAY.
What if… the discomfort is a sign you’re getting closer to what you need to uncover?
These are some of the affirmations I surrounded myself with as I prepared to birth my baby and it’s funny how many can be relevant for birthing an idea into the world:
– The experiences of labor + birth are a gift.
– I am surrounded by love, support + faith.
– Relax. Breathe. Open. Trust.
– I am confident. I am safe. I am secure.
– I quiet my mind. I embrace the wisdom and innate knowledge of my body.
– I am a strong woman and my body is powerful. I trust my instincts to know what I need.
– Countless women have given birth before me. Their courage and strength are with me.
Are there any messages you need to hear to support the ideas you’re gestating and bringing into the world? You’re not in this alone. Stay with it! Together, we rise!
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